Posts from — January 2017
You’re sending your student off to college for four (or maybe more) years. You worry because he is going to be on his own, and maybe you struggle (just a little) with your feelings about the empty nest. And you wonder what life will be like for your student at school.
Parents who have experienced college life themselves, may think they know a little about what to expect. (But they often forget their experiences may be twenty years or more old. Things have changed.) Other parents, who may not have attended college themselves, do not have their own experiences to guide their expectations.
So how do we know anything about college life? For many of us, our source is what we see and hear in the media – news stories, films, TV, and advertising. College students – and college faculty and officials – will quickly tell you that that image is often, very often, less than accurate. One study of first year college students found that 77% of students surveyed felt that the media over-exaggerates the excitement of college.
January 16, 2017 No Comments
“Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going.”
January. It’s the time of year for resolutions, new habits, and optimism that this year will be better than the last. Thank goodness we all have an opportunity once each year for a reset.
For most students, the New Year not only provides the usual possibilities, it is often the start of a new semester as well. This means a fresh start. Even the best students often have plans to make this new semester even better than the last.
But unfortunately, we all know that most New Year’s resolutions often fall by the wayside a few months, weeks, days, or maybe even hours into the year. We all have trouble making them stick, and students are no different.
An article on Headspace, an online meditation website, discussed ways to make meditation stick for those who were giving it a try. Although we think meditation can be wonderful for students (and their parents,) this article is about how students can use the same principles that the Headspace article discussed to help them make new study habits stick.
January 9, 2017 No Comments
As the old year rolls over into the new, it is often a time of looking backward and looking forward. For many parents of high school seniors and college students, the focus may be more forward than backward. It’s an exciting – and sometimes anxious time.
A few years ago, we offered some suggestions to keep in mind as you formulate your resolutions for the New Year. We’d like to share them again here and then help you get started by offering five resolutions for high school senior parents and five resolutions for those of you who are college parents.
We’re sure you’ll add a few of your own, but we hope these may help to spur your imagination.
January 2, 2017 No Comments