Posts from — December 2015
When you do something once, it is interesting. When you do something twice, it suddenly becomes a tradition. We’re now in the third year of sharing a look back at College Parent Central’s year. Clearly a tradition. Reflection is always a good exercise.
It’s that time of year when we can’t quite decide whether to look backwards at the year that is just ending or to look ahead at the year about to begin. We really need to do a little bit of both. Looking back gives us some perspective to look ahead, and think about our goals and plans for the new year based on where we’ve come.
So before we look ahead, make plans, make resolutions we probably won’t keep, or set goals for 2016, we’d like to take a moment to look back at some of our articles for 2015. These are the articles that, to us, speak most about the essence of the college parent role and/or speak to those ideas and issues that most affect the way we relate to our college sons and daughters.
This year we’ve decided to give some of our articles awards. (If we don’t, who else will?) See whether you agree with our choices.
We invite you to take a few minutes to review these articles, and to think about how you view your role as college parent. How have you grown into the role over the past year? Where might you and your college student go next year?
December 28, 2015 No Comments
As we approach what, for many of us, is the holiday season, we want to share an inspiring success story with you. The story comes from one of our readers.
We often receive comments on posts or e-mails from both parents and students. Many of these messages come at a time of difficulty – often around probation or dismissal or other crises. It is often a time of struggle and uncertainty. As often as we can, we offer a few words of encouragement or advice, and most of the time we never know what happens.
Here is a portion of one such comment, received in the summer of 2013 on our post What to Do If Your Student is Academically Dismissed.
First of all, I really appreciate your responses! I have learned a lot just by reading them. I do have a similar issue with being Academically Dismissed. I was attending school and majoring in Gerontology. I attained my Associate in Arts degree prior. I did very well my first 2 semesters, but then some personal tragedies began to unravel my life. . . . Unfortunately, due to my living situation being turned upside down and also my car breaking down and having to buy a new one, school was not feasible. I stopped attending class because I had to go to work. I was a mere 20 credits away from my degree.
December 21, 2015 1 Comment
Winter Break is almost here. You had a taste of having your student home from college over Thanksgiving Break, but that was just an appetizer. The full course is coming over Winter Break, which might be as long as a month or more. Hopefully, everything went well over Thanksgiving Break, but there may have been some adjustments and compromises along the way.
Thinking ahead to Winter Break, and doing some planning, means you and your student can work together to make it not only a pleasant, but a productive break as well. Here are fourteen suggestions for ways that your student can use at least a portion of Winter Break to do more than just catch up on sleep and friends (but be sure to leave plenty of time for that as well). Of course, he can’t do everything on this list, but help your student decide what will give him the most benefit.
December 7, 2015 No Comments