Posts from — January 2016
The more that college parents know and understand about the college experience, the less we worry and the better we will be able to help our students to succeed and thrive throughout their college career. However, there is an overwhelming amount of information out there on the web. We’d like to help you find some of the information that might be most interesting and useful to you as a college parent.
In News and Views we share recent college related news and sources we’ve found as we do our research. We hope that this feature will help to introduce you to new ideas and to help you keep up with some of the current issues that may affect your college student – and you.
We invite you to read some of the articles suggested below – and to let us know what you think of some of the ideas included here.
January 31, 2016 4 Comments
The college applications have all been submitted. Check. It is the end of a long road leading to this point. For students, and their parents, there may be a let-down. As relieved as you are to have this process finished, you and your student have been so focused on the college application process for so long that you’re not sure what to do now.
Can you really be expected to just stop everything and wait for the admission letters to arrive?
This is a good opportunity for you to model some behavior and attitudes for your student as you both shift from the high gear of getting applications ready to waiting for responses. Here are three behaviors that parents can model for students during this time.
January 18, 2016 No Comments
From time to time, we like to review some of the books available for parents of college students. There is a wealth of literature available to help parents cope with the transition to college and the changes that occur throughout the college years. We’ve created lists of recommended reading, and there is something for everyone. See our Resources and Tools page for suggestions.
This month we’re considering a book that is intended for your student, but we recommend it for parents to review first and then to pass on. Parents should read Straight A’s Are Not Enough first because as parents, we, too, need to be reminded that getting an education is about more than grades. We can’t expect our students to focus on education rather than grades if we don’t value the broader education as well.
But be sure to pass this book on to your student. The book is intended to help students study better, and smarter, to be able to move beyond simply grades to a true education. One of the strengths of this book is that, as the author discusses true learning, she fills the book with strategies that are bound to raise any student’s grades in the process. Chapter after chapter is filled with exercises, review questions, techniques and strategies for better studying – what the author terms the ‘intentional approach’. The book has over 100 strategies for students to employ that cover everything from approaches to learning to notetaking to rediscovering the excitement of reading and mental processing.
January 14, 2016 No Comments
Whether your college student is beginning the first day of her first class in college or just beginning a new semester, she needs to be ready to succeed right from the start. One of the beautiful things about the college system is that students get a brand new start at least twice a year in a semester system (even more if the school has a trimester or quarterly system). Students begin a new semester with new courses and new instructors. A fresh start for everyone.
So your student has a fresh start and new classes. She needs to show up and begin, right? Well, maybe. There’s a difference between students who just show up the first day (and we know just showing up for class is important) and those who show up just a little more prepared and ready to succeed right out of the gate.
What can your student do to make sure she’s one of those students with that beginning edge? Here are a few suggestions that can make the difference.
January 11, 2016 No Comments
It’s that time of year. Reflections and looking back at the year that is ending, and Hopeful Beginnings as we look ahead and plan for the year to come. Sometimes resolutions seem silly – we probably won’t keep them anyway. But making a few New Year’s resolutions means thinking about the year to come – and what we’d like it (or us) to be like.
So as we begin 2016, we’d like to offer some suggestions for your college parenting year. Take a few minutes to read our suggestions from previous years at the end of this post as well. Our hope is to give you lots to think about – and then you choose what makes sense to you, or even better, make up your own.
This year, we’d like to suggest nine activities to undertake with your college student (or soon-to-be college student.) We do a lot of talking here at College Parent Central about communicating with your student. But communicating can sometimes more easily occur while you are doing something together. And doing something together often brings surprising discoveries (not to mention lots of fun) as you work or play together.
January 4, 2016 No Comments