Category — Yearly Cycle of Information
As the old year rolls over into the new, it is often a time of looking backward and looking forward. For many parents of high school seniors and college students, the focus may be more forward than backward. It’s an exciting – and sometimes anxious time.
A few years ago, we offered some suggestions to keep in mind as you formulate your resolutions for the New Year. We’d like to share them again here and then help you get started by offering five resolutions for high school senior parents and five resolutions for those of you who are college parents.
We’re sure you’ll add a few of your own, but we hope these may help to spur your imagination.
January 2, 2017 No Comments
When you do something once, it is interesting. When you do something twice, it suddenly becomes a tradition. We’re now in our fourth year of sharing a look back at College Parent Central’s year. Clearly a tradition.
Reflection is always a good exercise. Looking back gives us some perspective to look ahead and think about our goals and plans for the new year based on where we’ve come.
So before we look ahead, make plans, make resolutions we probably won’t keep, or set goals for 2017, we’d like to take a moment to look back at 2016. What does the past year reveal about the essence of the college parent role and those ideas and issues that most affect the way we relate to our college sons and daughters?
We invite you to take a few minutes to reflect with us, and to think about how you view your role as college parent. How have you grown into the role over the past year? Where might you and your college student go next year?
December 26, 2016 No Comments
Right now, most college students are just hanging on through the final days or weeks of the semester. They’re facing final papers, final projects, review sessions, and of course, final exams. But at the end of it all will be Winter Break – a time to finally sleep, and eat, and sleep, and catch up with friends, and sleep. Parents, are you ready for the next two or three or five or even six weeks?
Most parents and families are anxiously looking forward to having their college student home again. But many parents may also be a bit nervous about what to expect. If this is the first time that your student will be home for more than a few days since you dropped him off on move-in day, you may be more than a little nervous about what to expect.
Some of the keys to a great break for everyone are to anticipate what to expect, be prepared, and communicate with your student. College Parent Central has several articles about how to make the most of this Winter Break, and we’ll share them below. Take a few minutes to read them and to think about what you can do to be sure that you have a good break. We’d also like to offer a few highlights to get you started.
December 6, 2016 2 Comments
It’s that time of year again. Black Friday. Small Business Saturday. Cyber Monday. We’re thinking about family and friends and we’re thinking about gifts. If you have a college student, or an about-to-be college student, you may be searching for some ideas for useful or fun gifts.
You know your student best, and can tap into interests and needs, but we’d like to offer some suggestions that may stimulate your imagination. We have some new suggestions for 2016, but we’ve offered some suggestions in the past. Don’t stop with this post! Check out our earlier posts for additional suggestions – most are timeless and still good ideas.
Check out our ideas, and then let your own creativity take over!
November 28, 2016 No Comments
The more that college parents know and understand about the college experience, the less we worry and the better we will be able to help our students to succeed and thrive throughout their college career. However, there is an overwhelming amount of information out there on the web. We’d like to help you find some of the information that might be most interesting and useful to you as a college parent.
In News and Views we share recent college related news and sources we’ve found as we do our research. We hope that this feature will help to introduce you to new ideas and to help you keep up with some of the current issues that may affect your college student – and you.
We invite you to read some of the articles suggested below – and to let us know what you think of some of the ideas included here.
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September 30, 2016 No Comments
For many new college students, the first semester of college presents a challenge – and not just inside the classroom. The transition to college is exciting; but it can be stressful and difficult for many students. Most students start out committed to doing well in college, but they sometimes lose focus on how to move toward their goal.
We’ve written an earlier post about the many challenges that students face during this important first semester of college. Please take a few minutes to read about and anticipate some of these challenges.
Wouldn’t it be nice if your student had a coach to make this journey through the first semester along with your student?
At College Parent Central, we are committed to not only helping you, as a college parent, navigate the college experience and support your student, but also to helping your student as well. We continue to share information with parents, but sometimes, students may need guidance from someone other than a parent.
August 15, 2016 No Comments
We don’t very often engage in self-congratulation, but we’re taking a moment to wish ourselves a Happy Anniversary! Seven years ago, on April 1, 2009, the College Parent Central website was launched with the hope that we could help parents make the transition to a new style of parenting as their sons and daughters became college students.
Seven years ago we believed, as we continue to believe now, that parents need information and guidance in order to best support their college student to succeed. We hoped to be able to provide some of the guidance that would help parents be able to navigate their new role. We’ve been more than pleased throughout the last seven years to hear from many parents who have found our information helpful.
Although the focus of some of our posts continues to change over the years as we continue to grow, the basic principles which drove us at the beginning continue to anchor us now.
- We believe that parents can be important partners in their child’s education from pre-school through college.
- We believe that most parents want to be involved in their child’s college experience.
- We believe that parents do have a place in their child’s college experience.
- We believe that many parents don’t know how to be involved in their child’s college experience.
- We believe that many parents don’t understand today’s college experience. (Those of us who attended college ourselves need to learn how the college experience has changed in the twenty-first century.)
April 4, 2016 No Comments
It’s that time of year. Reflections and looking back at the year that is ending, and Hopeful Beginnings as we look ahead and plan for the year to come. Sometimes resolutions seem silly – we probably won’t keep them anyway. But making a few New Year’s resolutions means thinking about the year to come – and what we’d like it (or us) to be like.
So as we begin 2016, we’d like to offer some suggestions for your college parenting year. Take a few minutes to read our suggestions from previous years at the end of this post as well. Our hope is to give you lots to think about – and then you choose what makes sense to you, or even better, make up your own.
This year, we’d like to suggest nine activities to undertake with your college student (or soon-to-be college student.) We do a lot of talking here at College Parent Central about communicating with your student. But communicating can sometimes more easily occur while you are doing something together. And doing something together often brings surprising discoveries (not to mention lots of fun) as you work or play together.
January 4, 2016 No Comments
When you do something once, it is interesting. When you do something twice, it suddenly becomes a tradition. We’re now in the third year of sharing a look back at College Parent Central’s year. Clearly a tradition. Reflection is always a good exercise.
It’s that time of year when we can’t quite decide whether to look backwards at the year that is just ending or to look ahead at the year about to begin. We really need to do a little bit of both. Looking back gives us some perspective to look ahead, and think about our goals and plans for the new year based on where we’ve come.
So before we look ahead, make plans, make resolutions we probably won’t keep, or set goals for 2016, we’d like to take a moment to look back at some of our articles for 2015. These are the articles that, to us, speak most about the essence of the college parent role and/or speak to those ideas and issues that most affect the way we relate to our college sons and daughters.
This year we’ve decided to give some of our articles awards. (If we don’t, who else will?) See whether you agree with our choices.
We invite you to take a few minutes to review these articles, and to think about how you view your role as college parent. How have you grown into the role over the past year? Where might you and your college student go next year?
December 28, 2015 No Comments
Winter Break is almost here. You had a taste of having your student home from college over Thanksgiving Break, but that was just an appetizer. The full course is coming over Winter Break, which might be as long as a month or more. Hopefully, everything went well over Thanksgiving Break, but there may have been some adjustments and compromises along the way.
Thinking ahead to Winter Break, and doing some planning, means you and your student can work together to make it not only a pleasant, but a productive break as well. Here are fourteen suggestions for ways that your student can use at least a portion of Winter Break to do more than just catch up on sleep and friends (but be sure to leave plenty of time for that as well). Of course, he can’t do everything on this list, but help your student decide what will give him the most benefit.
December 7, 2015 No Comments